Here's to maintaining some self-respect and sanity while tending to the growth and maturation of young minds, including your own young mind. Here's to recognizing that it isn't necessary to know how everything is going to turn out in advance, and that often Life has much better in store than one can imagine. Here's to hope and happiness even when Life gets complicated, especially then... That's when it's needed it most.

...afterall, the car may only seat seven but room for friends is unlimited...

Tuesday, December 30, 2008

A Blessing: Numbers 6:24-26

The Lord bless thee, and keep thee:
The Lord make his face shine upon thee, and be gracious unto thee:
The Lord lift up his countenance upon thee, and give thee peace.

Friday, December 26, 2008

Blessed beyond measure.

I keep thinking that I need to post something, but I'm maybe just a little overwhelmed at how much love we've received lately from neighbors and friends. I couldn't get my brain around what I wanted to say. Mostly, I just want to say that this has been such a wonderful holiday. By and large, the children were very well behaved. There was very little arguing. There was no grumpiness about getting the right gifts or enough. We had so much in the way of extra unexpected love come our way. We are loved, and that is the best feeling ever - especially at Christmas. I am so grateful to be living here in this area. Our neighbors and church community have been attentive to our needs - I can't even begin to tell how wonderful they have been. The are Christians of the highest caliber. They inspire me.
The other thing I have been thinking of today is the sweetness of my children. Yes, they've had their moments. Yes, I've had frustration - but I've also had pure joy that has persisted and rested on our home for nearly three days. A will be three years old tomorrow. Her little voice and precious pronunciation makes every thing she says ring in my ears. I love to hear her express her thoughts and feelings. When she is very excited, she speaks very quickly and I realize that I am not quite fluent in her language, but I love every syllable nonetheless. Q has moods that swing with the hour, but mostly he's just said, "Mommy, I love you so much." He is so sincere and darling. It is good to see him settling in and feeling like home here. The big boys were touched at the outpouring of Santa's gifts this year. My 10 year old believes. That is so much fun. My 13 year old was grateful to those Santas that made his Christmas merrier. He was amazed, happy and grateful. If you have a teenager you know that those things don't often happen in the same sentence let alone the same day. E was such the quintessential almost 8 year old girl. She loves the mom role. She is affectionate (to near overload). She is precious with her younger siblings, and had a great time all day long. She dressed up for the trip to Grandma's.
This year has been so confirming. D and I have done the right thing. Last year, there was no peace at Christmas. This year, there was just happiness, love and relaxation. There was no angry stain on the day, no overhanging tension in the air, it was just wonderful. It was absolutely perfect and wonderful. I have no reason to regret our current course - although I know that future Christmas seasons will surely be more complicated. Life brings with it it's own sorrows and joys. If I didn't know the sorrowful days, I don't think I'd know to be able to say - Yesterday was splendid and perfect in every way. What a blessing.
It was a lovely Christmas. Today was lovely, too. I have to head back to work tomorrow, but it will be with a light heart. I am so happy today. I hope I can make it last a very long time.

Thursday, December 11, 2008

Last day for Scentsy Christmas orders is . . .

December 15, 2008.

If you want something delivered to someone before Christmas, please let me know prior to that date. Also, if you live near me, I do have some things on hand so feel free to give me a call afterward as well, I just won't be able to do a Christmas order directly from Scentsy after that date.

What's this?

This is A's favorite thing to say.

"Mama, Hachatamelt."

What does she want?

(I'll edit the post later and tell you, but I'd love to hear what you think.)

Kate wins!
"Hot Chocolate Milk" - or as we in the big world say, "Swiss Miss".

Biking

This morning, after dropping the older kids off at school, my two youngest and I were driving home when I noticed something interesting on the side of the road.

I pointed and said, "Look Q, it's a guy riding a recumbent bike."

Q looked over and said incredulously, "Why?"

First of course, I laughed. It wasn't what I thought he'd say, at all.
Then, we talked about the why because as it turned out, he was very interested in it. After I finished laughing he said again. "Why, mom? Why would someone want to ride a bike like that?"

I thought that maybe it was a back problem, or because he thought it looked cool or it was fun to ride.
I don't know, anyone know why recumbent bikes are cool?

Tuesday, December 9, 2008

Time to make Dinner!

I'm not often home at dinner time these days. I'm often at work. So, tonight I am working on my attitude of gratitude. I am grateful to be the one preparing a warm meal for my family this evening. I am happy that I can hear their voices and direct their activities tonight. Two of them will soon be headed out to evening activities. This will be the best time of my day with them.

It is 5:46 p.m.
It is time to make dinner, and I am very happy to do it!

Life

Life involves passions, faiths, doubts and courage.

Josiah Royce

Wednesday, December 3, 2008

Leave a message.

When I was waking my 13 year old son this morning, he proved to me - once again - that his sizzling wit will be a very important part of getting him through the "rough stuff".

"Time to wake up, T . . .Come on sweetie."
nudge nudge
"Seriously T . . . you need to . . ."

"T is not available right now. Please leave a message. Beeeeeeep." 
giggle giggle

I, of course was completely unable to resist it - I about fell on the floor belly laughing.

That was a great way to start the day.